In a far more positive note, both Aloys (the school Jackson came from) and my own school had the same rape presenter come to us. He told us the 'preventative' tricks, but mostly everything else; but to the boys he tells them *what* is rape, when they are responsible, when situations should be left alone and when they should go to the police. I was rather impressed - by both the incredible *logic* of that solution, and by the ignorance which leads to boys in a gangrape situation thinking that forced oral sex isn't illegal.