re: changing your last name. How exactly do you imagine you would compromise? Because compromise means both people giving. Usually when I see people saying they'll compromise they end up hyphenating and giving their children their husband's name, which is, um, not really a compromise, because one partner still isn't actually giving anything at all.
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Date: 2009-11-16 08:33 pm (UTC)Um. I sort of feel strongly about that! :P