oh no

[labellementeuse]

incredibly anal, passive yet bitchy and silently judgemental flatmate has just got home. I was totally NOT expecting her home tonight, so I haven't done last night's dishes yet, and I'm warm and snug and planning on doing them around nine. But she's just walked in and I KNOW that she's judging me for not having done them and and and. grrrrr. I hate that she's judgy about the kitchen on the one night nobody did the dishes, even when she's opted not to cook with us and left her dishes for us last night, even though earlier in the week she left her dishes, we did them, and then two nights later picked her dishes out and washed them rather than, you know, return the favour. She often isn't home in the evenings, so we often end up ding her breakfast and lunch dishes, but RECOILS at the suggestion she help with our dishes every now and then.

hate. haaaaate.

ETA: OH, FANTASTIC, she's doing dishes. now either a)I feel guilty for not having done them or b) she just washes hers and I feel pissed off again, EITHER WAY, I look bad. Why doesn't she be active and ask me to help or something? grr.

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[lady-larla.livejournal.com]

Is hardly going to kill her to do them once! Shes a big girl she can cope with the trauma! Don't fret about it....